Michael Krasny

"Helga writes from the heart and she puts lucidly into prose good, sound and wise advice about the ways for us to begin needed conversations across the generation chasm."

– Host of KQED Forum and author of Spiritual Envy: An Agnostic's Quest



Stan Jernigan

"A pathway, guide and instruction book for dealing with two taboo subjects – money and death. Helga shows how families can avoid misunderstandings about these two issues. This book should be mandatory reading for every parent and adult child."

–Founder, The Mentor Group



Robert Burton, M.D.

"A common sense approach to rethinking personal relationships in the light of not-so-intuitively obvious cognitive science discoveries."

– Author of On Being Certain: Believing That You Are Right Even When You're Not



Bruce Feldstein, M.D.

"I've seen the peace that comes to families who can have the conversations included in this book."

– Director, The Jewish Chaplaincy
Stanford University Medical Center



An Hour with Your Congregation

None of us knows how long we will live.The longer we wait, the less time we have for what really matters : coming together again in love and forgiveness as a family. It is urgent to open the discussions that deal with money, love and legacy. 

Many of your congregants may be estranged from their children or parents. They want to begin a process of reconciliation with people they love, but don’t know how to begin. They may be facing the difficult task of end-of-life planning, yet are uncomfortable about sharing their preferences regarding legal, financial, medical and lifestyle matters with their children. 

They may be more comfortable about their relationship with God than they are with their family. The estrangement from the people they love may have happened years ago because of events and misunderstandings they didn't resolve. They may feel alienated and want to reconcile, but don’t know how to start these crucial conversations. They may not know what to say or fear being rebuffed after they say it. 

The information in this book and in the talks I give can be very effective in removing the pain of unfinished business between the generations...before it's too late. Please contact me for more information.

This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or call me at 650-740-1467


Buy the book Money, Love & Legacy

Build Your Own Legacy Binder
Build Your Own Legacy Binder